Since I relocated from Germany to the United States it is difficult for me, because I don't know the city very well and the college I attend is a community college with more people who could be my parents instead of potential friends to hang out with. Also the college has literally no activities or a big amount of clubs to offer. The only club I attend is the international club, all other clubs are boring to me.
With this post I want to set up my short term plan on how to get rid of depressions. I know I will need professional treatment to overcome the underlying causes of my depressions, but this should keep me on distance with the dramatic lows of my mood.
The best way is to socialize and build up a strong social network that support me, or at least that is the recommended solution #1 searching the internet for help. Furthermore it is probably the cheapest way of self-help.
1. Attend clubs
As I mentioned before I already attend the international club on my college. I tried to find out if there are any public clubs or branches of Associations I could attend, but could not find anything besides night and strip clubs.
Anyone some hints for me or a link where I can find something nationwide?
In addition I also tried to get in touch with the students who are
learning German, but unfortunately they have no classes on campus, just
online classes :( I gave my contact details to the instructor with the
notice, that any student can contact me if he wants to talk German. No
response on my offer.
I also thought about contacting the local Rotary Club in my city, but I am still not sure what the
Rotary Club is about. Maybe I can volunteer with them.
Would be happy if someone can provide assistance on that.
2. Attend Meetups
I am registered on
meetup.com but I was still not encouraged to join a local meetup with like minded people. I try to find a upcoming event that fits.
Also tried to find some conferences on
eventful.com without success, maybe useful for someone else.
One post from Lifehack that gave me some inspiration and has some more tips:
Get Out More: 6 Ways to Be More Social